Is The Lover appropriate for children?

# The Lover - Parental Guide This R-rated drama contains strong sexual content, language, and violence unsuitable for children. It depicts an affair between a teenage girl and adult man in 1920s Saigon, exploring themes of exploitation and power dynamics. The film is intended for mature audiences only and not recommended for minors.

What age is The Lover suitable for?

Our verdict for The Lover is: Not recommended. See the age grid on this page for specific recommendations by age group.

Is The Lover safe for children? | ScreenWise Parent Guide

Content breakdown

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Violence

Strong

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Language / Profanity

Strong

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Sexual Content

Strong

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Horror / Scary

Moderate

About this movie

Type

Movie

Released

1992

Rating

Genre

Drama, Romance

Synopsis

A poor French teenage girl engages in an illicit affair with a wealthy Chinese heir in 1920s Saigon. For the first time in her young life she has control, and she wields it deftly over her besotted lover throughout a series of clandestine meetings and torrid encounters.

Cast

Jane March

The Young Girl

Tony Leung Ka-fai

The Chinaman

Frédérique Meininger

The Mother

Arnaud Giovaninetti

The Elder Brother

Full cast on IMDb ›

Age suitability

Under 6

Not yet

Ages 6–8

Not recommended

Ages 9–12

Not recommended

Ages 13+

Not recommended

Where to watch

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Ratings based on MPAA/TV classification and TMDB metadata. Updated March 2026.
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